Lesson learned. Incest, sibling sexual abuse, rape and inbreeding in incest families are intergenerational, and will take many generations to change such an inhumane culture. As the adult incest survivor, it is up to you to put a stop to the lies and… via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. Incest, sibling sexual abuse, rape and inbreeding in incest families are intergenerational, and will take many generations to change such an inhumane culture.
As the adult incest survivor, it is up to you to put a stop to the lies and cover ups, to change the future for the next generation, but this I know to be true from my own life experiences, when you speak up as an adult incest survivor, most incest family who are well off have statues to protect, they will continue to shun you and blame the victim of child sexual abuse for speaking out, and then the adult survivor who speaks up in that family is made the scapegoat.
We are born to be real, each day we have to choose to stay authentic, because eventually the truth will be exposed and brought into the light, then people will see that the emperor had no clothes.
To remember who you are…You need to forget who they told you to be. I didn’t break the rules in this incest family, the rules were already broken long before I got here.
To read more go to:Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages: http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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Lesson learned. Until we heal the wounds from our own childhood past, we will keep repeating the old dialogues in our own life and then pass them on to our children and their children’s children as our ancestors have done with us, we are the next generation, and many of us are made scapegoat, ignored by the rest of the family members and treated as crazy by those people that don’t understand about secrets cults and incest family.

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The Roots of Pain and Abuse in Families: What You Don’t Know About Dysfunctional Familes & Intergenerational Abuse
PAIN-BASED THINKING, AND INTERGENERATIONAL ABUSE by Evelyn Ryan, Yourlifelifter

Bringing clarity to the root causes and sources of the family dysfunction will significantly help alleviate the self-blame and shame that abuse victims experience and clear a path to healing and recovery.

Dysfunctional abusive families are fueled by unhealed pain-based maladaptive thinking that has been passed on from generation to generation to generation. Most recently, epigenetic studies are exploring the factors that embed trauma in our cellular genetic memories.

So the abuse that you and I and everyone are experiencing today, at this very moment, along with our emotional pain, was never ours to begin with. They, however, can be traced to unhealed emotional wounds, faulty thinking, and pain from your great great great great great grandfathers and grandmothers.


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Cardinal George Pell has officially been charged with historical child sex offences. Do you think he will return to Australia to face justice ? He says he has officially been given leave by the Holy Father the Pope, to come home and defend these c… via #AntiSex


Cardinal George Pell has officially been charged with historical child sex offences.

Do you think he will return to Australia to face justice ?

He says he has officially been given leave by the Holy Father the Pope, to come home and defend these charges, but will he do so ?

He has in the past used a doctors note to explain his refusal to return to Australia to give testimony at the Royal Commission, however in this case he is the one facing charges of sexual offences against multiple complainants.So far he is going on the front foot saying he will come home and he will have his day in court.

In the interest of ensuring no cases get thrown out of court because of the possibility of an unfair trial, we will not speculate on his guilt or innocence. We will however say that everyone is innocent until proven guilty.

Our question is what do you guys think ? Do you think he will actually come home to face justice, or do you think another doctor’s note will appear?

Latest reports have stated Pell is discussing the situation with his lawyers and his doctors, but he remains adamant he will return to fight these charges against him.

“All along, I have been completely consistent and clear in my total rejection of these allegations” he said.

“News of these charges strengthens my resolve, strengthens my resolve.

“Court proceedings now offer me an opportunity to clear my name and then return here, back to Rome to work.”

Pell has been ordered to appear in the Melbourne Magistrates’ Court on July 26, after Victoria Police served charges on his legal representatives.

It will be decided by a magistrate next week, July 6th, in a seperate hearing, whether the details of the charges will be released to the public.

We’ll keep you updated on that decision.

But in the meantime we at FACAA would like to acknowledge the continued strength of the survivors who have suffered abuse at the hands of the clergy, and a special mention to the survivors and the community of Ballarat.
Guilty of these charges or not, Cardinal Pell and the Catholic Church have much to answer for, so many lives have been affected by the abuse perpetrated and the refusal to hold those abusers accountable.

Well, come the 18th of July, Pell’s expected date of return, we will see if he shows up or not, if he does it will be one of the biggest legal cases in Australian history, if he doesn’t it will be just another excuse. (A)

#FACAA #ProudFACAA #Cardinal #GeorgePell #Catholic #Church #Vatican #HolySee #WillHeShowUp #GuardiansOfTheInnocent #VoiceForTheVoiceless #HopeForTheHopeless #ChildrensChampions #EndingChildAbuse #RaisingAwarenress #ChangingLives #HealingSurvivors #ChangingLaws #LegalReform #Legal #Law #NoExtradition #WeWillFight #StandUp #KidsLivesMatter #BallaratSoSad #FromHellWeRise




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Lesson learned. When you can tell your story without the pain and anguish crushing your soul, you are healed and your story of survival will help other survivors find their own voice. It is up to you to never be afraid of your inner voice, to never … via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. When you can tell your story without the pain and anguish crushing your soul, you are healed and your story of survival will help other survivors find their own voice.
It is up to you to never be afraid of your inner voice, to never be ashamed to share your inner child story of survival, never fear your own inner truth, it can unlock someone else’s prison door, even light up the way for many others.
Sharing our own life experiences on this continual journey of survival is all about helping others to see, to grow and to understand that this inner healing is about staying present in the good, the bad and the ugly of our childhood past, it’s the process of becoming authentic people.
The world is the same it is “YOU” and “I” who are changing. It is time to stop blaming our childhood past, and our incest family for our bad actions. You and you alone are responsible for transforming your own life, and become the adult survivor.
To read more go to:Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages: http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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Lesson learned. “Integrity is the pure interaction cleared of any projection, expectation, manipulation or control. When we live with Integrity every word, thought and action springs from the Intelligence of the Heart and flows in harmony, enlightene… via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. “Integrity is the pure interaction cleared of any projection, expectation, manipulation or control. When we live with Integrity every word, thought and action springs from the Intelligence of the Heart and flows in harmony, enlightened by the pure light of Consciousness.”
Our Self-dignity and our Self-respect do not depend on other people’s acceptance or approval of us.
To read more go to:Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages: http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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Please note: I was given permission to share this story last year, and share it again today because I am sadden by what I read each day and not because of my own childhood past, but because of the stories like mine that are shared by very brave peopl… via #AntiSex


Please note: I was given permission to share this story last year, and share it again today because I am sadden by what I read each day and not because of my own childhood past, but because of the stories like mine that are shared by very brave people each and every day.
Stories such as this one needs to be shared and talked about, so that other children might be spared.
“Thank you Cristina. Its been over two years since my son (4 years old then) was sexually abused by his half brother (13 years old then)…they had a normal sibling relationship or so a I thought, everyday I try and look back seeing if there were any red flags and there just were not. At the same time looking back I think how while I taught him about stranger danger I never talked to him about inappropriate touches, it never crossed my mind. I will never forgive myself or get over the guilt for not having that talk with him…that’s why I feel its so important to spread the word, because so many people don’t realize you may think you know someone but that’s just not the case…what ever I can do to help Cristina please let me know…thank you for listening.”
Even our own family friends credentials are not sufficient reason to trust someone.
To read more go to: Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages: http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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Free Street Safe self defence seminar in Perth to help raise money for FACAA to fight child abuse ! Saturday 8th July 11am Girls/Women only 1pm All access. FACAA are proud to promote this event at our latest school to come on board with the Phoen… via #AntiSex


Free Street Safe self defence seminar in Perth to help raise money for FACAA to fight child abuse !

Saturday 8th July 11am Girls/Women only 1pm All access.

FACAA are proud to promote this event at our latest school to come on board with the Phoenix survivor’s program.

FACAA reps Cris and Carly will be in attendance making the most of this awesome opportunity.

The knowledge is free however all attendees will be encouraged to make a note contribution to the FACAA fight to end child abuse.

No pressure to join the gym at all, no politics so even if you’re a member of another gym come down and help the fight to end child abuse.

FACAA would like to thank the awesome crew at Sunset Muay Thai, if you could show them some appreciation by liking their page. Tell them the FACAA sent you !

Hope to see you all there ! (A)

#FACAA #ProudFACAA #SunsetMuayThai #Perth #WA #PhoenixProgram #SelfDefence #Seminar #RaisingFunds #GuardiansOfTheInnocent #EndingChildAbuse #RaisingAwareness #HealingSurvivors




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Lesson learned. The taboo in society against talking about incest is stronger than the taboo against doing it. As painful as speaking up has been for me as the adult incest survivor, I will never again close my eyes to the truth, as for my family and… via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. The taboo in society against talking about incest is stronger than the taboo against doing it. As painful as speaking up has been for me as the adult incest survivor, I will never again close my eyes to the truth, as for my family and children who are living their life with what they don’t know, if they are at peace living in the lie, I am happy for them not to know the truth, until they are ready to know who they truly are. Adult survivors don’t wear the pain of his or her childhood past on their sleeve, we don’t have to wear it on our sleeve because it lives in us, is engraved in our heart and spirit and the memories will stay in our mind forever. People ask me if I am happy with my life, because my life seems empty to them. I don’t know what happiness means to others, but I do know what happiness is to me, for me it’s all about me living my life in the truth, real happiness is a state of being and finding peace within, and that does not need the approval of others.
Inner peace is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony with your own life and in knowing the truth, even when the truth brings pain into our life, happiness is being able to be happy in the painful truth, its about you accepting the truth and being able to live your life in that truth without destroying or damaging others.
To read more go to:Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages: http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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