Lesson learned. “Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcase of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.” If we are to better the future we must disturb the present, we need to be th… via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. “Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcase of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which landed in the valley of change.”
If we are to better the future we must disturb the present, we need to be the change if we are to bring about a better world for the next generation.
I am asked many questions and the answers I give are always from my own life experiences, and I need to be as honest with you, as I am with myself.
My suppressed childhood memories returned and inundated my life at age 43, I believe it was to heal my life from the brokenness I survived as a child, and to clean out the debris left behind by my incest family, which have now helped me to rebuild new foundations that will sustain my adult life.
My awareness of my family’s distorted incest history has also destroyed all of my old beliefs systems, walking each step on this lonely path has been a painful reminder of everything that this journey has separated me from.
I’ve had to ask myself, “Who am I without wearing masks, without the stage settings that built my value and worth in that life when I was someone’s daughter, someone’s wife and someone’s mother?
After a lifetime of being someone’s daughter, someone’s wife and someone’s mother, I finally accepted all the different parts of myself, by accepting all the good, the bad and the ugly that lived in me.
In my incest family structure, I’ve only ever been someone’s daughter, and from that old programmed lessons I learned to become someone’s wife and someone’s mothers, but I’ve never been someone’s Me.
To read more go to: Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less not even from yourself. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages:
http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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WANTED PLEASE SHARE For performing an indecent act upon himself after watching children play at around 6pm Wednesday 29/11 in Dundas NSW He is around 180cms tall with a solid build, Aged in his 50s and balding. Police are appealing for public info… via #AntiSex


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For performing an indecent act upon himself after watching children play at around 6pm Wednesday 29/11 in Dundas NSW

He is around 180cms tall with a solid build, Aged in his 50s and balding.

Police are appealing for public information after a man allegedly watched children playing within the Williams Reserve, Dundas, and then committed an act of indecency.

About 6:00pm on Wednesday 29 November 2017, a man was observed watching the children for a period of time before walking across the street to a nearby construction site on Arrunga Street.

While at the site he committed an act of indecency upon himself.

A witness called out to the man who then apologised before walking away.

He was last seen sitting at a bus stop on Kissing Point Road, Dundas, where he is believed to take the 545 bus towards Chatswood.

Police are appealing for assistance to identify a person in a photograph taken on the day.

Investigators believe the person can assist with their inquiries.

The person is described as an adult male, Caucasian in appearance, about 180cm tall with a solid build and balding, and aged in his fifties.

Anyone with information should contact Rosehill Detectives or Crime Stoppers on 1800 333 000.

Police are urging anyone with information in relation to this incident to call Crime Stoppers on 1800 333 000

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Lesson learned. “I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today.” One of the hardest things I’ve had to do in these last twenty-six years is to grieve the loss of my own childhood, grieve the loss of my incest family, the pa… via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. “I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today.”
One of the hardest things I’ve had to do in these last twenty-six years is to grieve the loss of my own childhood, grieve the loss of my incest family, the painful separation from my children, even the loss of my position and statues in society that once was my life.
I’ve had to also grieve the loss of the person I once believed myself to be, the person who is still alive today, but no longer belongs to that world.
We were all born with the ability to change someone’s life don’t waste it, even if its only to change one life, yours.
To read more go to: Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less not even from yourself. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages:
http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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‘I did everything I could to help rescue those little girls’ via #AntiSex


“You didn’t know because he is far more invested in you not finding out than you are in finding out, because you didn’t know there was anything to find out, and his entire life is built around hiding this secret, so you didn’t stand a chance.”
Women who discovered their husbands’ stash of child sex abuse images speak out https://t.co/8iczaWKpJN

‘I did everything I could to help rescue those little girls’

Australian women who discovered their husbands’ stash of child sex abuse images speak out.


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Former Catholic School teacher Grahame Code who raped boys in his care because he “thought it was a fun thing to do.” Grahame Code said UNDEROATH that he just thought raping the young boys in his care was a fun thing to do and didn’t think it was i… via #AntiSex


Former Catholic School teacher Grahame Code who raped boys in his care because he “thought it was a fun thing to do.”

Grahame Code said UNDEROATH that he just thought raping the young boys in his care was a fun thing to do and didn’t think it was illegal.

Sorry Mr Code but that’s an absolute load of rubbish because we know for a fact that you told them not to tell their parents. So if you honestly didn’t think it was illegal, why then would you tell them not to tell their parents ?

The former Catholic school teacher pleaded guilty to multiple counts of child sexual abuse and rape in a Melbourne court yesterday. The 79 year old may have gotten away with it too, had it not been for police arresting and charging him with the Aberfeldy bushfire back in 2013.

One of his survivors had kept it quiet for years but then when he heard his abuser’s name in media reports about the bushfires, he decided he had kept his secret long enough and came forward.

His wife Linda was in court to hear the harrowing details of his shocking crimes. Like how he pinned one teenage boy against a wall and kissed him. Or how he raped another 13 year old who was staying at the farm. Then a third boy who came forward was also raped after he too went to the rural property at Aberfeldy for a school trip.

His victims were rightfully scathing of Code in their statements, “You took something from me, your actions were horrid despicable and calculated” – Survivor 1

“Your actions have taken something from me, your actions were horrid, despicable and calculated” – Survivor 2

During most of the trial Code and his wife held their heads down and looked at the floor, however at one point his wife broke down and covered her face with a tissue. We at FACAA can’t help but wonder if she will stand by her man, even though she knows the absolutely horrific details.

Another shocking betrayal of trust, another pathetic excuse. He said it himself, “I think I was mistakenly thinking it was a fun thing to do,” “I didn’t realise it was against the law”… remember this man was a Catholic school teacher.

The trial continues Friday, we at FACAA hope it doesn’t last much longer and ends with him doing a VERY long time behind bars ! (A)

Our Apologies we had to remove the original post as there was an error.. Grahame Code was a Catholic School teacher but not a Priest as was incorrectly stated on the poster.

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Catholic priest Graham Code who raped boys in his care because he “thought it was a fun thing to do” Graham Code said UNDEROATH that he just thought raping the young boys in his care was a fun thing to do and didn’t think it was illegal. Sorry Mr… via #AntiSex


Catholic priest Graham Code who raped boys in his care because he “thought it was a fun thing to do”

Graham Code said UNDEROATH that he just thought raping the young boys in his care was a fun thing to do and didn’t think it was illegal.

Sorry Mr Code but that’s an absolute load of rubbish because we know for a fact that you told them not to tell their parents. So if you honestly didn’t think it was illegal, why then would you tell them not to tell their parents ?

The former Catholic school teacher pleaded guilty to multiple counts of child sexual abuse and rape in a Melbourne court yesterday. The 79 year old may have gotten away with it too, had it not been for police arresting and charging him with the Aberfeldy bushfire back in 2013.

One of his survivors had kept it quiet for years but then when he heard his abuser’s name in media reports about the bushfires, he decided he had kept his secret long enough and came forward.

His wife Linda was in court to hear the harrowing details of his shocking crimes. Like how he pinned one teenage boy against a wall and kissed him. Or how he raped another 13 year old who was staying at the farm. Then a third boy who came forward was also raped after he too went to the rural property at Aberfeldy for a school trip.

His victims were rightfully scathing of Code in their statements, “You took something from me, your actions were horrid despicable and calculated” – Survivor 1

“Your actions have taken something from me, your actions were horrid, despicable and calculated” – Survivor 2

During most of the trial Code and his wife held their heads down and looked at the floor, however at one point his wife broke down and covered her face with a tissue. We at FACAA can’t help but wonder if she will stand by her man, even though she knows the absolutely horrific details.

Another Catholic priest, another shocking betrayal of trust, another pathetic excuse. He said it himself “It was something fun to do” . Whoever could think that raping a child was “something fun to do” is no servant of god but instead sent directly from Satan !

The trial continues tomorrow, we at FACAA hope it doesn’t last much longer and ends with him doing a VERY long time behind bars ! (A)

#FACAA #ProudFACAA #GrahamCode #Priest #Catholic #Church #Catholic #CatholicChurch #EndingChildAbuse #RaisingAwareness #ChangingLives #HealingSurvivors #ChangingLaws #Legal #LegalReform #Law #Reform #KidsLivesMatter #WeWillFight #StandUp #NeverGonnaStop #GuardiansOfTheInnocent #VoiceForTheVoiceless #HopeForTheHopeless #ChildrensChampions #WeWillFight




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Lesson learned. Rock bottom become the foundation which you can rebuild your adult life. It is up to you to change yourself into the person you want to become. You and I are living proof that things can change in our own life, life is a journey, we … via #AntiSex


Lesson learned. Rock bottom become the foundation which you can rebuild your adult life. It is up to you to change yourself into the person you want to become.
You and I are living proof that things can change in our own life, life is a journey, we can all learn how to live a better life than the one we once lived and survived as children.
I am often asked. ”How can you be at peace as the adult-survivor after what others have done to you as a child? How can you still see beauty in people and in the world after a childhood like yours?”
The pain of all my losses is the force that drives me to rebuild my adult life from the brokenness I survived as a child. The struggles I’ve faced over these years walking through a maze of unknown past fears, flashbacks and memories of a time long gone, is the very things that have given me the strength and courage to continue to go on.
If you and I were not strong enough to move out of our safe and familiar comfort zone, we would not have found the courage to let go of the outdated destructive family programmed patterns of old beliefs, for the unknown ahead of us.
When you can accept yourself for who and what you are, its then that you are free to be yourself. It’s a choice I’ve made not allow what others have done to me in the past, to dictate how I feel today as the adult survivor, my family have robbed me of enough, I will not allow them to rob me of my inner peace.
It’s up to me now to make sure not to look back, I am no longer going that way, but its not easy to walk on, to find the strength to continue living after all the losses endured.
To read more go to: Authors Pages: http://members.westnet.com.au/cristina.m/index.html
Life commends our Respect, and our Soul Dignity, never settle or accept anything less not even from yourself. I am an Adult-Incest-Survivor-Author-Advocate and the Founder of Cristina’s House of Hope. CHOH WebPages:
http://www.cristinashouseofhope.com.au/




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